This time we’ll go friends first, then fuck each other’s brains out

In April, our daughter started playing in a local sports league. This was going to be a first interactions with “football dads”, “soccer moms”, “hockey moms”, etc. From my research and our interactions in the swinging world, I knew that we would come across swingers in this area of life. The demographics all added up. Add to the fact that we would also have children that were the same age, all we had to do was to pick the right couple out. Without any signals that we could wear, save maybe a LCD billboard proclaiming we are swingers, we were going to have to rely on our swingdar.

Dealing with these people was going to be different from looking for people on CT, go to the clubs around town or even having awesome people like TFGU refered to us. The couple that we decided to talk to was brought to our attention by the fact that our daughters played well together. There was going to be some issues, like she was 6 months pregnant at the time, but something about them triggered my kink alarm. Plus she is really pretty, and we were going to be seeing them twice a week for the foreseeable future, so let’s let it grow.

From this point forward they will be referred to as Mike and Melissa.

Spring turned to summer, and we really had not made inroads with the couple. For some reason, ” I love watching my wife fuck other people!” was not coming out. Complicating things are the fact that Mike works with husband #2. If we did find out they were swingers, it would be improper to out them to our group.

There is another variable to all of this though. Our daughters bonded very well. To the point that our daughter began asking if their daughter could accompany us on outings. We started inviting Mike, Melissa and their 2 daughters to start coming to our Sunday night dinners, and see if they would be a good fit in our group. At this point BB and I were 50/50 on whether they were swingers or not.

After a couple of dinners, we became Facebook friends and then the breakthrough happened. One of BB’s swinger friends recognized them and commented on what a cool couple they are. This friend asked us if we had enjoyed our time with them. “Well, our daughters play sports together and that’s how we know them. I know you did not mean to out them, but thank you, thank you, thank you.”

From that point, we put an accelerated plan into action to out ourselves “organically.” We really wanted to secure the friendship aspect that was lacking from the couples we met through CT. While we had this extra piece of information, we did not want to exploit it. So, we began dropping more hints. We started using more swing-friendly terms. Then we had a discussion over the roles of church and the negative stigmas they give to sexuality. In this BB came out as bi, and Melissa did too.

She bought BB a leather strap for her birthday and mentioned that she had seen them at a club. Whistles sound that here is the moment we’ve been waiting for. BB asked her through a

Facebook message if the club she mentioned was a vanilla club or if it were a little more Taboo. Melissa stated that it was a big lifestyle club in West Houston, outing them as swingers. I returned the favor in a message with all four of us. It did not take long for things to heat up. I took so many hot pictures of BB last night, and we will probably throw a few on the blog and on twitter.

They are a soft swap couple who are not in any hurry to go full. She’s a mother of a newborn. Highly educated. Very attractive. Great curves. Oh my God! I found the closest thing to Mrs. Learning that I am going to find in Houston. Happy dances all around.

If one cannot tell, I am very excited for the way things are going, and where they might lead.

BB chatting, asking for poses.