Hooray for Friends with Benefits!!

A little bit of back story: before our last get together with Mike and Melissa, she had told us about a dream that she had. This dream included her getting fucked with a strap-on. Well, we made sure that it happened.  About a week before our get together, Melissa told us about another dream. The four of is often chat in a group chat on facebook. Melissa told us that she had been having a bunch of  sexy dreams about the four of us. She finally told us that she had a dream where Josh was fucking her and Mike was fucking me and she and I were making out. It took me about 2.3 seconds for me to ask her if she wanted to try it and see how awesome it could be.

Telling people about the blog.

(For those of you looking for details of the full swap we had over the weekend, Mrs. Learning , I am sure BB will finish that post up sometime in the near future.)

 

It’s been a long time since we told anyone from our real lives about the blog. Over a year to be precise. The last couple we told that we had a blog also lost their minds at one point and sent us not so cryptic messages threatening to out us. Nothing ever came of it, but it let me know that I should be a little more selective with those whom I invite into my personal space.

I mentioned in my last post that Hot Doctor had told us that another of her couple friends had stumbled into the swinging word. I also assumed (correctly) that she had told them about us. We actually chatted about stuff yesterday. Desires, Fears, communication issues, we talked about a lot. Granola Mom also said that her husband was a bit apprehensive to things and asked if it were ok if he asked some questions sometime. Of course I say that it’s OK, but I have this thought in my mind to just say, “hey we’ve kept a running journal over the past 2 years. All of the good and most of the bad is written down. I think it will answer a lot of questions and give him the confidence to ask others. “

I think I will send her a link, I just needed to write everything down to see that it sounded like a good idea.

It’s time to gear up for the New Year!

Wow, I can’t believe that it’s been two years since we started writing on this blog. Maybe I will do a retrospective post sometime soon.

(Assume all links attached are NSFW.)

I could not help but notice the traffic spike and think that it must be attributed to Inferno releasing his list of sexy bloggers. Now is my turn to heap praise onto him. Some of my favorite blog posts in the world are his posts with hot women in costumes. (Click here to see them!)  Between the interesting things that Aarron posts at the Red Region Inferno blog and the posts made on the Swinger’s Attic with his wife Miranda, these guys deserve all of the praise that can be hoisted on them.

You can click on the badge below to see the full list. Add some news blogs to your reading list! Go through the site and enjoy the pictures posted and the words written.

Another night with Mike and Melissa!

Josh and I were able to arrange another great evening with M&M the other night, and a great time was had by all! There were several awesome moments, so I will highlight a few here.

It’s a stressful time of the year

Well, we have reached the time of the year where I become married to my work. While I try to make sure that I maintain communication with BB to make sure we do not have a meltdown like we did last year, I am watching several of our close friends go through strife of their own. As a bystander to a lot of these issues, I feel that this is the best place for me to give my opinions, and my opinions are surely valid.

Boy, this soft swap stuff can drive a person crazy

It’s been a few months since we started hooking up with Mike and Melissa, and now more than ever I find myself really wanting to have sex with her. BB and I have never been in a relationship with a couple that has gone on this long with fucking happening, and I can’t say that I am a big fan.

Moreover, we had a very honest conversation with them about going bareback with them we eventually did start having intercourse. Because of this, BB and I made the decision ourselves to stop having sex with others until that happens. As we have more and more time invested, I don’t want to find a guy or two to come over and show BB a great time, only for those two crazy cats say that they are ready to get it on. I know it may sound strange, but the thought of watching BB get filled up by another guy drives me crazy, and well I have not cum inside another woman in 14 years. (Just writing that made me feel old.)

I don’t want to pressure Melissa (Mike has made it very clear he is on board) into doing anything. I’ve tried subtle things like mentioning dreams that I had with her in them, but she does not seem to want to talk about sex. Mike will ask every question that I wanted her to ask though. I’ve gotten my hands on around her, and she stays reserved. I’ve no clue what to do, I just know that I want to ask bluntly, but I really like the long term thing we have going on.

While I was trying to figure that out, I went ahead and started browsing CT again. We got a lot of responses from the moment we found ourselves back on the website. That was very nice to experience. If we have not move forward towards the full swap soon, I assume that we will be swapping with other by New Year’s. We plan on being in New Orleans this year, so what better way to spend it than watching some strange guy fuck your wife silly! That’s our plan anyways.

I did not think that this article deserved a break, but I like them because they drive up the hit count. If you hit the read more link below, you’ll get to see BB’s freckles and cleavage.

25 things about Josh’s sexuality

I must say that I love finding new (to me) blogs on the internet. Most of the time that starts with someone commenting or subscribing to my blog. In this instance Scarlett from a True Unfolding subscribed to our blog. First thing I notice on her blog is the painting by Frida Kahlo. That led me to poking around her blog, reading some really hot stories and ultimately to her blogroll.

One of the blogs I found is 25 things About My Sexuality. I instantly loved the concept of the blog, a place for people to describe their sexual sides in their own words.  I took a shot and submitted my own list, and it can be found after the jump.

Tin Roof… Rusted!

First a celebration is in order. I stopped taking fluoxetine a couple of weeks ago and last night I got off in 3 minutes. I was so happy I almost cried. It sure as hell beats having to fuck for 2 hours and then jerking off for another 90 minutes to get off. I’ll never have to put a band-aid on my chafed cock again and that’s a good thing.

In other news, BB and I have a full slate of activities scheduled for the weekend. A fundraising event for the Houston Zoo tomorrow will be our first date night for ourselves in quite sometime. While there will be groping of Wife #1, he event is going to be pretty vanilla overall. I just found out that a coworker will also be attending, so I must be on my best behavior.

Saturday the kiddos will be going off to spend the night with their grandparents. We plan on watching the Cougars play Saturday at the strip club in an environments that will span from vanilla to crazy sexy fun. Who knows, this might be the first step into pulling a big orgy together.

So when do you know if unprotected sex is right for you? (+ NSFW photos inside of random people.)

Why do I find myself wanting to keep pushing the line on things? The question is a bit rhetorical as the answer is that I am a fun loving sexy beast. Still, I wonder if I can ever truly sit in the status quo of things. We have found this truly awesome couple, but I still found the need to try and see where we all stood. We have now known them for seven months and have been playing with them in a soft swap capacity for two. I really have tried to be patient, but every now and again I get these thoughts into my head.

So, *this* is what it’s supposed to be like!!

If you’ve read up on the previous post, you know that we have met a couple whom we become friends with first, then realized that they were swingers. There has been a ton of flirting and lots of very sexual chatting online. It’s been great. I am super attracted to both of them, and Mike has always been of interest to me. He actually looks at me in the eye when I am talking. He seems to show genuine interest in me (he once texted me to see how I was feeling when I had been sick.)